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The Human Condition: Problem Statement
Below is a summary of the most significant challenge that we face today; as individuals, social structures and every organisational structure. The problem is endemic, and most people are either blind to it, or consciously enforce it, in order to appease, unmet child hood needs.
Problem Statement
We prune the authenticity of our children from birth. We offer neglect and abuse in response to it’s needs. So those non-verbal feelings become internalised and often rejected. Unfortunately, those were natural, autonomic, genetic processes, and they include various self-regulatory functions,
Then, we force the child to regulate itself, or rather, to overwrite those genetic and natural responses with entirely false inauthentic, static and robotic, but acceptable, learnt replacement coping behaviours.
Then later, down the line, the result of that treatment shows up in us all. We are empty, our true self leaked out in childhood. However, that false replacement, is what society demands. So all of us, we carry on, limping along, still trying to find those undelivered childhood needs.
We are not whole, our organism is heavily biased, and our co-created organisational structures and solutions also struggle with that black and white thinking. It is full of holes, and it is unspoken fear avoidance, which keeps those holes enforced.
Possible Solution
Two years ago, I offered a suggestion to try to fix all of this: I suggested that we train the world how to get along, by teaching unconditional positive regard and empathy to the masses. I can see now, that as a solution, it was naive, and would require far too much structural change.
Ongoing Efforts
I seem to have an insatiable need, to somehow, help. So over the last couple of years, I have built quite a significant technical resource, here at Self Transcendence Research.
Currently, I am starting to integrate those mighty stovepipes that we have created, in order to hide this truth from ourselves.
Recently, my articles are pinpointing the exact mechanisms that cause our mental disorders and antisocial behaviours.
This includes how that combined collective incongruence has caused us to create such incohesive and divisive societal, governmental and other organisational structures and solutions.
I currently have 1.2m words, I have been boiling the ocean, trying to convince the nerds.
But now, all of that boiling, it seems to be working. All those many theories, they are collapsing into an integrated whole, Each has many holes, but in every current theory, there is also a treasure of gold.
So, this Christmas, I am expanding my “offer”, my massive collection, of completely free stuff. Here is a rundown, of my seasonal gifts to the world:
Simple Guides: Entry point content at last! These are plain English understandings of the fundamentals of Self Mastery. Over 100 mini understandings, which on their own, I feel, will give anyone a great start. Take a look at these two sections from the collection:
However, I created these, to support the first of my “coming soon’s”:
Self-Mastery Training Module One: This is the first of two planned self-mastery modules. This one concentrates on mental strength and resilience. It prepares one for what some used to call, the “grand work”, which is your journey to self-mastery.
This will land before Christmas too. The target reading age, is 12+. I now understand that most adults seem too far gone, to dare change their currently configured self. I think a younger audience might be persuaded to look at this. Especially when it tells them how to understand, and protect themselves from bullies and nags.
Self-Mastery Training Module Two: This will come after Christmas, I have given myself until March to have this completed, but may well launch it lesson by lesson.
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